Don't Kick The Habit Yet

There is this article by Lissa Rankin.

Lissa writes:

"I know you just made resolutions, but don’t try to stop smoking. Don’t give up booze. Don’t throw out your pot. Don’t ditch the donuts.

While you’re at it, don’t join the gym.  Don’t try to meditate every day.  Don’t promise to get over your money issues. Don’t resolve to lose twenty pounds.

Don’t quit the job you hate. Don’t leave your deadbeat boyfriend.  Don’t try to be a better mother/ daughter/ friend. Don’t give up internet porn.

Don’t finish that novel. Don’t sign up for that art class. Don’t declutter your house. Don’t get out of debt."

"What the heck? !!!" you might ask. Read until the end of Lissa's article and you will understand.

And, from my experience with myself, my children and my clients, I can really say she's right.

You might wonder how to accept yourself with those "bad" habits and even love yourself although you "did it again". 

Schedule a FREE diagnostic call with me here and let's talk! I'd be more than happy to help you see how natural it actually is for you. :)

Your Calling and Your Ego

One of my Facebook contacts shared a link to an article by Shelley Prevost today. It resonated too much with me not to share it with you. So, here you go!

"Your ego and your "calling" in life can look surprisingly similar. Both pull you toward the realization of your desires. Both can completely consume your waking (and sometimes sleeping) hours with frenetic thoughts and sparks of brilliance. They can also manifest very similar outcomes--money, fame, and power. And they can both leave you feeling exhausted.

Ego is necessary and important because it does the work to assemble your personality. It manages your fragile identity while you figure out who you are. It protects you from the onslaught of societal expectations and motivates you to work hard and achieve great things.

But ego alone can also skew you toward thinking that hard work and achievement are the goals in life.

If your ego is what assembles your personality and manages your identity, then your calling is invested in making sure it's authentic--who you really are--not just a persona you show the world.

Here are some ways to decipher which one is really driving your work.

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My Share for Today - The Flow of Receiving

Today, I received a newsletter from Pamela & Gerrit from the www.jeshua.net.

This paragraph from a new channeling really captured my attention:

"Imagine that in your solar plexus lives a small figure, a man or a woman, a figure that represents your ego, and look at it very objectively. Does that figure reach forward and try to order everything? Or does that figure back away because it is all too much, too overwhelming, and calls up too much fear within it? Look what movement your ego is tempted to make, toward or away from. Finally, imagine that your ego is balanced and that this figure in your solar plexus is in an upright, standing position. It is connected with your soul and the Heavens from above, and with your body and the Earth from below. Feel how supportive and liberating that is for your ego, for your personality. Everything becomes freer and more fluid. It is a gentle flow of unconditional love. Allow this flow to happen, and allow it to uplift you."

I tried to apply it, and it really worked! I felt much better right away!

So I read the whole channeling "The Flow of Receiving in Your Life" under the tab "Earth speaks". It was a bit long, but, oh, so worth reading, as it really resonated with my heart and soul so perfectly, and with my Ego! :)

You know I always love to hear from you, right?

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